– Websites

Coming Out Resources

The Couples Study: Lessons from Long-Term Male Couples in Non-Monogamous Relationships

Dimensions Clinic SF: Miscellaneous queer resources in San Francisco

Human Rights Campaign: Adoption, Coming Out, HIV/AIDS, Marriage, Parenting, Transgender, Youth & more.

Lyon-Martin Health Services: Health care for women, lesbians and transgender people in a safe and compassionate environment.

LYRIC: SF based LGBTQQ youth organization

TransGender SF: Miscellaneous transgender resources in SF/Bay Area

Trans: Thrive: A drop-in center by and for the trans community

Magnet: Free STD Testing in SF

San Francisco AIDS Foundation

St. James Infirmary: Free medical and social services for sex workers of all genders and sexual orientations.


– Phone Numbers

GLBT National Youth Talk Line: 800-246-7743

The Trevor Project – Talk Line: 866-488-7386

San Francisco’s Suicide Prevention’s
Suicide/Crisis Line: 415-781-0500
Drug/Relapse Line: 415-362-3400

National Suicide Prevention Hotline: 800-273-TALK (8255) – open 24/7

California AIDS Hotline: 415-863-2437


– Books

Love Between Men: Enhancing Intimacy and Resolving Conflicts in Gay Relationships

Stone Butch Blues: This brave, original novel is considered to be the finest account ever written of the complexities of a transgendered existence.

Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and stories of the wild woman archetype.

Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships

The Velvet Rage: Overcoming the Pain of Growing Up Gay in a Straight Man’s World

“A Guide for Understanding, Supporting, and Affirming LGBTQI2-S Children, Youth, and Families”: Free PDF  (click here to Download)